If you are aiming to develop the mindset of a warrior you must keep this in mind because I am certain you have fallen prey to it many times in your life already and it is extremely likely that you haven’t even noticed it:
The excuse for why you haven’t done what you need to do becomes the reason why you fail. It might be pretty instant or it might take some time but, either way, there will come a time where you fail and the reason for why you failed will be the exact excuse for why you didn’t do what you knew you had to do.
This is easily explained through some examples:
- You have been told that you cardio is not up to scratch by your coach and that you need to do a road run every day to help improve it, but the weather has been terrible and so you decide it is better not to leave the house and to do a bit of stretching and technical work indoors instead. By the time your next fight comes around you will have an underdeveloped cardio system and you will lose your breath, slow down, and lose the fight in a painful and irritating way. The reason for the loss is… The weather was too bad to go outside.
- You know that you are fluent and eloquent enough when it comes to social situations and you know that being able to speak with a greater range of vocabulary would serve you well when it comes to explaining your ideas and impressing people. You found the “Speech Improvement” course that looks great to you but you have to pay to join it and it is a bit too much for you to justify paying for it right now. Two months down the line you get a job interview at a company that you’d love to work at; you don’t speak particularly well, you don’t get the job, you failed that interview. The reason for that loss is… The price of the course was too much for you to feel comfortable paying for it.
This isn’t about judging the excuses as poor or to say that every reason for not doing something is unjustified – it is just stating a fact about our reality. The universe doesn’t think in terms of “good and bad” it just creates causes and effects. If the reason that you couldn’t train is honest, reasonable, sensible, intelligent, etc. It will still be the reason why you ended up losing the fight.
It all depends on what you want to be. If (like me) you will accept nothing but being the best at everything you ever do and never failing or losing – literally being the ultimate human being – you will have to do the work that you know you have to do regardless of the reasons to not do it. That is not an easy path, but it is the path that leads to performing at your absolute peak, always!
If you are okay having some wins and some losses, fitting into the crowd and just jogging by in life then there should be no issue with coming up with an excuse here and there – just be ready for and aware of this fact of life because the loss/failure is coming. That being said, if you are trying to develop and nurture the Warrior Mindset then you should not be “okay having some wins and some losses”, you should be aiming to become an efficient, well oiled, powerful winning machine.
Again, I want to make it clear that this is not a judgement about whether an excuse is real, or sensible, or justified (I am happy to pass my judgement of every and any excuse on an independent basis) it is literally a fact of life that 99.9% of people will ignore. This is why that same 99.9% of people will fail, not recognise how, and repeat for their entire lives.
It is extremely likely you are in that 99.9% of people. If you can highlight to yourself 3 times where you have come up with an excuse that led to you not doing the work you were meant to do you will be able to take your first step out of this loser cycle. If you can’t sit there and manage to do this then just accept you are part of the failure majority and stop torturing yourself with the idea that you could amount to becoming someone valuable someday.
Keep doing the work,
Master Luke Robinson.